THE NARRATIVE ARC

Partners in Crime

A Father’s Legacy

Kerry Kramer
5 min readOct 13, 2024

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Naval officer being saluted by sailors
My Father, and a Naval Officer; author’s photograph

My dad was bigger than life!

He was a Chief Gunner’s Mate serving in the U.S. Navy from January 10, 1936, until he retired on August 10, 1955. During his service, he was an eyewitness to the sinkings of three U.S. aircraft carriers, The Lexington, Yorktown, and Hornet. He participated in most of the naval actions in the far reaches of the Pacific and was awarded several commendations and awards during his active duty.

However this story is not about his legacy as a Navy Chief, it is about his legacy as my father.

I had always been told that my dad wanted a boy, but when I was born on June 30, 1949, he became a daddy again to another girl.

Surprisingly this worked to my advantage as I became his pal and partner in crime. He was a great girl dad and I was a great tomboy!

One of our earliest misadventures happened when I was 5 years old.

Early one Sunday Morning my dad woke me up and said, “Tell your mom you are sick, so we don’t have to go to church”. He was so much fun, and I was an obedient little girl, so I coughed and hacked, and groaned and moaned until my mom relented. She fell for my act, but warned my conniving father, “You better promise to take good care of her.” I’m…

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Kerry Kramer
Kerry Kramer

Written by Kerry Kramer

I am every woman. I write about the irony of life, friendship, authenticity, aging, and life experiences with humor and honesty. My Motto: Be Your Own Anchor!

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