Oh boy Janice can I ever relate! 52 years of marriage, both active and in pretty good health, then boom 💥 it started to change! Within 5 years we’ve have 4 surgeries, been diagnosed with chronic health conditions, we wear knee braces, wrist braces, diabetic monitors, CPAP machines, …and we’re the lucky ones! I like to be comforted…my hubby likes to be left alone. It’s complicated! 🤪 good luck!