I couldn’t agree more. I’ve not been feeling well and a friend asked how I was doing. I thought she wanted the truth, so I told her how I felt and that I was scared. She proceeded to give me a 45 minute lecture, starting with “now don’t think like that…as if I’m a faucet and can turn it off and on at whim. I will never share anything more than “I’m fine” . Thanks for writing about this! Good article,