Hey Orrin…don’t give up just yet…it takes a while for a group to bond! Thinking about the groups I enjoy regularly…I’d say 4-5 people is kind of an average number! I noticed during the 5 years we’ve lived in this 55+ community that when people start remembering the details about your life… a bond forms. Ie: did your son get the job? Is your wife feeling better? Etc. good luck!