Amy, I find your writing and you, not only interesting but hilarious. I am the opposite when it comes to hanging out… I’m a people person but I can l appreciate solitude. One of my best friends told me when we met almost 40 years ago that she is a shitty friend, and she was right. She never calls, invites or returns texts…but when I stalk her enough , and she agrees to hang out, we laugh our butts off and she makes me feel loved like no other! We all bring something different to the friendship table, and for whatever reason, this friendship works!